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Fix resync goroutine leak in ListAndWatch

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**What this PR does / why we need it**:

This PR fixes resync goroutine leak in ListAndWatch function

**Which issue this PR fixes** _(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)_: fixes #

fixes #35015

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Previously, we had no way to stop resync goroutine when ListAndWatch
returned.  goroutine leaked every time ListAndWatch returned, for
example, with error.  This commit adds another channel to signal that
resync goroutine should exit when ListAndWatch returns.