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pass listener in integration test

**What this PR does / why we need it**:

pass listener to `SecureServingOptions` to prevent port in use flake.
partially fix #58936

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

/assign @liggitt @sttts @caesarxuchao 

**Release note**:

```release-note
NONE
```