We have a old boltdb/bolt, etcd has moved to newer boltdb, so we should
do the same. Specifically this change needs to be in our tree:
https://github.com/boltdb/bolt/commit/92410e067395f10c8c93fad62c3e6c4b7aca82f0

as this fixes intermittent issues we see in our CI runs. So in this
PR, we vendor the v1.3.0 version of boltdb/bolt.

Fixes #43973