* Bump etcd to v3.5.4-k3s1
* Fix issue with datastore corruption on cluster-reset
* Disable unnecessary components during cluster reset

Disable control-plane components and the tunnel setup during
cluster-reset, even when not doing a restore. This reduces the amount of
log clutter during cluster reset/restore, making any errors encountered
more obvious.
Signed-off-by: Brad Davidson <brad.davidson@rancher.com>