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Replace sets.List() with sets.UnsortedList() in pkg/proxy

**What this PR does / why we need it**:

Replace sets.List() with sets.UnsortedList() in pkg/proxy - sets.List() will sort the result array, we don't need sorted array in pkg/proxy. Using sets.UnsortedList() can reduce the unnecessary overhead spending.

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

@wojtek-t wdyt ^_^

**Release note**:

```release-note
NONE
```

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