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Don't skip mounts if we can't find the volume

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Return an error instead of skipping the volume while constructing the list of volume mounts for the container runtime.  This prevents the scenario of a container writing data to an ephemeral volume when it expects the volume to be persistent.

**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes #53421

**Release note**:

NONE

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