Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 39092, 39126, 37380, 37093, 39237)

Endpoints with TolerateUnready annotation, should list Pods in state terminating

**What this PR does / why we need it**:

We are using preStop lifecycle hooks to gracefully remove a node from a cluster. This hook is potentially long running and after the preStop hook is fired, the DNS resolution of the soon to be stopped Pod is failing, which causes a failure there.

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

Would be great to backport that to 1.4, 1.3 

**Release note**:

```release-note
Endpoints, that tolerate unready Pods, are now listing Pods in state Terminating as well
```

@bprashanth