Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 44942, 41258)

[Federation] Use federated informer for service controller and annotations to store lb ingress

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
This is breaking up of the PR #40296 into smaller one. please refer to #41253

**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes #
Handles 2 tasks in #41253
Fixes issues in #27623, #35827

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