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bugfix(mount): lstat with abs path of parent instead of '/..'

**What this PR does / why we need it**:

If a nfs volume with improper permission is mounted on a Pod, operation of deleting this Pod will fail and the pod itself will be stuck at a 'TERMINATING' status. Kubelet cannot reconcile it correctly.

This is because kubelet will try to find the mount-point with '..' file which needs `x` permission of dir.  When it's forbidden, the nfs volume will never umount without a correct mount-point finded.

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #57095

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

**Release note**:

```release-note
Get parent dir via canonical absolute path when trying to judge mount-point
```