Automatic merge from submit-queue

apiserver: fix timeout handler

Protect access of the original writer. Panics if anything has wrote
into the original writer or the writer is hijacked when times out.

Fix #29001 

/cc @smarterclayton @lavalamp 

The next step would be respect the request context once 1.7 is out.

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