Automatic merge from submit-queue

Fix strategic patch for list of primitive type with merge sementic

Fix strategic patch for list of primitive type when the patch strategy is `merge`.
Before: we cannot replace or delete an item in a list of primitive, e.g. string, when the patch strategy is `merge`. It will always append new items to the list.
This patch will generate a map to update the list of primitive type.
The server with this patch will accept either a new patch or an old patch.
The client will found out the APIserver version before generate the patch.

Fixes #35163, #32398

cc: @pwittrock @fabianofranz 

``` release-note
Fix strategic patch for list of primitive type when patch strategy is `merge` to remove deleted objects.
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