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Use probe based plugin watcher mechanism in Device Manager

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Uses this probe based utility in the device plugin manager.

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #56944 

**Notes For Reviewers**:
Changes are backward compatible and existing device plugins will continue to work. At the same time, any new plugins that has required support for probing model (Identity service implementation), will also work. 


**Release note**
```release-note
Add support kubelet plugin watcher in device manager.
```
/sig node
/area hw-accelerators
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