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bazel: set --incompatible_disallow_set_constructor=false to fix breakage

**What this PR does / why we need it**: The build is broken with bazel 0.6.0. I have a proper fix ready, but it'll lock us to bazel 0.6.0+, which I don't want to do quite yet, hence this workaround.

x-ref #52677

**Release note**:

```release-note
NONE
```

/assign @mikedanese @spxtr @BenTheElder 
cc @apelisse