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Helper methods dealing with ControllerRef

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Adds helper methods for working with **controllerRef** (controller's `OwnerReference`).

It is based on the existing code from Kubernetes plus extracting some common logic:
- `NewControllerRef` is based on examples from [daemon controller](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/controller/daemon/daemoncontroller.go#L1223), [deployment controller](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/controller/deployment/sync.go#L649), [job controller](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/controller/job/utils.go#L34)
- `GetControllerOf` is copied from [controller_ref_manager.go](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/controller/controller_ref_manager.go#L36)
- `IsControlledBy` is a common logic extracted from resource controllers: [deployment_util.go#L568](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/controller/deployment/util/deployment_util.go#L568), [history.go#L276](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/kubectl/history.go#L276) and many others.

It will also be useful for writing custom resource controllers, for example [service-catalog#979](https://github.com/kubernetes-incubator/service-catalog/pull/979)