Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 51728, 49202)

Fix setNodeAddress when a node IP and a cloud provider are set

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
When a node IP is set and a cloud provider returns the same address with
several types, only the first address was accepted. With the changes made
in PR #45201, the vSphere cloud provider returned the ExternalIP first,
which led to a node without any InternalIP.

The behaviour is modified to return all the address types for the
specified node IP.

**Which issue this PR fixes**: fixes #48760

**Special notes for your reviewer**:
* I'm not a golang expert, is it possible to mock `kubelet.validateNodeIP()` to avoid the need of real host interface addresses in the test ?
* It would be great to have it backported for a next 1.6.8 release.

**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```