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Force use of Makefile for update

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
This forces the use of `make update` instead of `hack/update-all.sh`. The main reason for this is ensuring that `make generated_files` runs first, as the files it generates are used in some of the other update scripts. I've seen this a couple times bite contributors where they just haven't regenerated the code yet, so the update-all scripts don't fully do their job.

**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```