Automatic merge from submit-queue

add metrics for workqueues

Adds prometheus metrics to work queues and enables them for the resourcequota controller.  It would be easy to add this to all other workqueue based controllers and gather basic responsiveness metrics.

@kubernetes/rh-cluster-infra helps debug quota controller responsiveness problems.

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