Merge pull request #64804 from mcluseau/automated-cherry-pick-of-#63977-#64672-upstream-release-1.10

Automatic merge from submit-queue.

Automated cherry pick of #63977: pkg: kubelet: remote: increase grpc client default size #64672: pkg: kubelet: remote: increase grpc client default size to

Cherry pick of #63977 #64672 on release-1.10.

#63977: pkg: kubelet: remote: increase grpc client default size
#64672: pkg: kubelet: remote: increase grpc client default size to

```release-note
CRI: increase grpc client default size to 16MB
```