This PR makes two changes.  One is to introduce a parameter
for the HTTP/2 setting that an api-server sends to its clients
telling them how many streams they may have concurrently open in
an HTTP/2 connection.  If left at its default value of zero,
this means to use the default in golang's HTTP/2 code (which
is currently 250).

The other change is to make the recommended options for an aggregated
api-server set this limit to 1000.  The limit of 250 is annoyingly low
for the use case of many controllers watching objects of Kinds served
by an aggregated api-server reached through the main api-server (in
its mode as a proxy for the aggregated api-server, in which it uses a
single HTTP/2 connection for all calls proxied to that aggregated
api-server).

Fixes #60042