Implement a "bulk" edit mode that postpones both UpdateQueuedSong()
and OnModified().  This way, the playlist version gets incremented
only once.  More importantly: when adding multiple songs to a queue
that consists of only one song, the first song that got added will
always be played next.  By postponing this choice, all newly added
songs get a chance to become the next song.  Fixes the second (and
last) part of Mantis ticket 0004005.