Fixes a potential deadlock introduced by commit 94528735

Using variable-size objects is not worth the trouble here.  Let's drop
this and use existing and simpler code.

Fixes another buffer overflow: if the stream has a very long title or
URL, resulting in a metadata string of more than 2 kB, icy_string[0]
is a negative value, which gets casted to size_t - ouch!

 https://bugs.musicpd.org/view.php?id=4652

Fixes a buffer overflow due to the bad formula rounding the buffer
size up.  At the same time, remove the "+1" from the meta_length
calculation, which takes the padding into account and at the same time
implements proper rounding.

Why did this cast exist??

Eliminate dependency on io_thread_get().

Rename struct Encoder to PreparedEncoder, and add a new (abstract)
class Encoder which represents one encoder instance.