Only _WIN32 is defined by the compiler, and WIN32 is not standardized
and may be missing.

Closes #169

Apparently, connecting a socket to a loopback address can block on
Windows, and a non-blocking socket will return WSAEINPROGRESS.  This
broken PoorSocketPair() in commit 2119e4fd, which made the socket
non-blocking right from the start.  This fix postpones the
ioctlsocket(FIONBIO) call until after the connect().

Closes #134

It does not do much harm - but it causes an unnecessary (failing)
system call.

Patch from
 https://svnweb.freebsd.org/ports/head/audio/musicpd/files/patch-src_system_ByteOrder.hxx?revision=441921&view=co
(with a tiny modification)

Closes #59

This eliminates some overhead, because the compiler doesn't need to
consider these functions throwing.

We're using std::chrono::steady_clock now.  No need to duplicate code.