Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

This enforces the "not nullptr" rule.

Fixes regression by commit 42f7df96

Don't use global variable.

Prepare for UPnP songs that retain there database identity.

Detach the Song class completely from the public API, only to be used
by SimpleDatabase and the update thread.

Reduces overhead because we need to manage only one memory allocation.
According to valgrind/massif, we save 7%.

From now on, struct Song will be used by the database only, and
DetachedSong will be used by everybody else.  DetachedSong is easier
to use, but Song has lower overhead.

Fixes regression from commit e96779de.