This reduces duplicates in the music database by hiding the original
song file when it is referenced by a CUE sheet.

Closes https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/1275

Closes https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/841

Instead of passing tag and group, pass an array of tags.  To support a
nested return value, return a nested std::map of std::maps.  Each key
specifies the tag value, and each value may be another nesting level.

Closes https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/408

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Grouping in the "list" command was completely broken from the start,
unlike "count group".  I have no idea what I have been thinking when I
wrote commit ae178c77, but it didn't
make any sense.

This commit is a rewrite of the feature.

For clients to be able to detect this feature, this commit also
increments the protocol version.

Prepare to make LightSong non-assignable.

Allows database plugins to use the EventThread, e.g. for CURL
integration.

The old struct config_param remains only for top-level string options.

Simplify the definition of many build options.