Since we now don't duplicate all items, we can easily remove the 64kB
limit from OpusReader::ReadString() and instead silently ignore and
skip all strings which are longer than 4 kB.

This fixes a tag duplication bug with Opus file containing a very long
`METADATA_BLOCK_PICTURE` tag, which occurred because the Opus plugin
returned false after parsing all tags, and then the MPD core fell back
to FFmpeg which scanned the tags again.

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Eliminate the fallback strndup() and strnlen() implementations.

This patch also adds extern "C" { } wrapper around string_util.h
to allow its usage in C++ code

Using libopus and libogg.