Don't scan tag items if the handler doesn't implement the tag()
method.

Prepare to migrate away from GLib.  Currently, we're still using GLib
as a backend.

This is the version present in Ubuntu Oneiric, the oldest distribution
with gcc 4.6.  Debian Squeeze is off target, because it has gcc 4.4,
which is unable to compile MPD anyway.

This commit drops all API compatibility hacks for older versions.

The new method pair() receives an arbitrary name/value pair.  Support
for this is being added to a few decoder plugins.

Pass a callback table to scan_file() and scan_stream(), instead of
returning a tag object.