libwrap is an obscure artefact from a past long ago, when source IP
address meant something.

And its API is "interesting"; it requires the application to expose
two global variables `allow_severity` and `deny_severity`.  This led
to bug #437.  I don't want to declare those variables; instead, I'd
like to remove libwrap support.

Closes #437

Without the flush, ReadPage() may not return any data, or not all
data.  This may result in incomplete ddata the new "header" page,
corrupting streams with some encoders such as Vorbis.

Fixes #145

Passing it by value is actually smaller (32 bit) than the rvalue
reference (64 bit pointer), and it ensures that the object is consumed
after the call returns, no matter how the methods are implemented.

Coverity discovered that the Pulse plugin could throw exceptions from
Pause(), but that method was marked "noexcept" because its caller was
not designed to catch exceptions.  So instead of avoiding exceptions
(by catching and logging them in each and every implementation), let's
allow them, and do the catch/log game in the MPD core.

Yet another C-style vtable replaced with C++.

Hide struct FilteredAudioOutput from the plugins, preparing for hiding
MPD's core internals.

Don't access AudioOutput::pause.

This eliminates some overhead, because the compiler doesn't need to
consider these functions throwing.

Fixes a potential deadlock introduced by commit 94528735

Eliminate dependency on io_thread_get().