Add a `constexpr` constructor and several `constexpr` methods to
construct a DecoderPlugin at compile time, in a way which allows
adding new methods later without having to edit each plugin.

Eliminates a number of allocations, because callers don't need to copy
the strings to a newly allocated buffer only to null-terminate them.
And most callers don't need to have a null-terminated string.

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Use `const_cast` to be able to pass it to sf_open_virtual() which has
a wrong parameter declaration.

Fixes memory leaks.

This eliminates some overhead, because the compiler doesn't need to
consider these functions throwing.

Replaces decoder_data() and others.

Replaces decoder_initialized().

Prepare for a Decoder API redesign based on an abstract class with
virtual methods.

The old struct config_param remains only for top-level string options.

Support these PCM formats natively, instead of letting libsndfile
convert everything to 32 bit.

Prepare for other sample formats.

Reduce header dependencies.