Don't use the bad `FatalError` library.

This eliminates some overhead, because the compiler doesn't need to
consider these functions throwing.

This was broken by 4f29034f.

Keep the parent process around until MPD has finished initializing.

This is important for libraries that are allergic to fork(), such as
libupnp.

Avoid GLib.

No GLib memory allocation.

Prepare to migrate away from GLib.  Currently, we're still using GLib
as a backend.

Replaces GLib's GError.

In a C file, that is too late, because _mingw.h defaults to 0x0502,
and ours would be illegal redefintion.

Clean up the process before exiting.