Prepare for using other crypto libraries, e.g. FFmpeg's libavutil.

Version 10.2+0.93+1 was released five years ago in 2014 and is the
first version to feature cdio_cddap_free_messages().  There is no way
to check the libcdio-paranoia version at compile time, so let's just
remove support for older versions instead of attempting to fix the
cdio_cddap_free_messages() check at build time.

Closes https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/613

libcdio_paranoia was split from libcdio in version 90, and at the same
time, the header was moved from cdio/paranoia.h to
cdio/paranoia/paranoia.h.  We can easily detect this version at
compile time which is faster than configure time.

So long, autotools!  This is my last MPD related project to migrate
away from it.  It has its strengths, but also very obvious weaknesses
and weirdnesses.  Today, many of its quirks are not needed anymore,
and are cumbersome and slow.  Now welcome our new Meson overlords!