This addresses two problems:

1. the libFLAC write callback had to send an error status to its
caller when SubmitData() returned a command; this disrupted libFLAC
and the resulting command could not be used for anything;

2. the libFLAC function FLAC__stream_decoder_seek_absolute() also
calls the write callback, but its result cannot be used, because
seeking is still in progress, so we lose all data from one FLAC frame.
By moving the SubmitData() call until after CommandFinished(), we
avoid losing this data.  This fixes another part of #113

Replaces decoder_initialized().

Prepare for a Decoder API redesign based on an abstract class with
virtual methods.

If the duration is unknown, pass SignedSongTime::Negative(), as
documented for decoder_initialized().

This is obsolete because it has been moved to the MPD core.

Prepare to migrate away from GLib.  Currently, we're still using GLib
as a backend.

Allow reusing Tag instances.

Remove GLib dependency from some headers.