Reduce header dependencies for SocketEvent.hxx.

The former is deprecated with C++14. The standard says both are the same:

The contents and meaning of the header<cstddef>are the same as the C
standard library header<stddef.h>,except that it does not declare the type
wchar_t, that it also declares the type byte and its associated
operations (21.2.5), and as noted in 21.2.3 and 21.2.4.
Signed-off-by: Rosen Penev <rosenp@gmail.com>

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Errors are fatal now.  This makes the class a lot easier to use.

Remove the runtime check for eventfd(), hard-code the feature once
it's been selected at compile time.  The class WakeFD is splitted into
EventFD and EventPipe, using WakeFD as a macro diversion.

.. instead of rolling own classes.

Parses CUE data from the "CUESHEET" tag.  Needs further integration in
the update thread.

Pass a callback table to scan_file() and scan_stream(), instead of
returning a tag object.

Based on the APE reader.

Don't call g_error(), which will abort the process and dump core.

This updates the copyright header to all be the same, which is
pretty much an update of where to mail request for a copy of the GPL
and the years of the MPD project. This also puts all committers under
'The Music Player Project' umbrella. These entries should go
individually in the AUTHORS file, for consistancy.

Renamed functions.