Only _WIN32 is defined by the compiler, and WIN32 is not standardized
and may be missing.

Closes #169

If libupnp is installed in a non-standard location we must rely on the
include path provided by $(pkg-config --cflags libupnp). Relative to the
path given from that command no prefix must be used to find the respective
files.

libupnp 1.6.24 added a few badly designed macros which break the MPD
build:

 https://sourceforge.net/p/pupnp/code/ci/8177a4195a4d4a5d6cb095eaf4ca5b65ac446381/

To work around this, we disable our emulation functions (from
714011c8) on this libupnp version.

Closes #163

Closes #155

Avoid another potential deadlock: if no file descriptors are
registered, our non-blocking ALSA code cannot ever work.

Bugs found by Coverity.

Allows defining a list of supported audio formats, and allows
switching on and off DoP with certain formats.

This is a first rough draft.  The setting syntax and its semantics may
still be redesigned.