Will be used for Song objects representing tracks inside a CUE file.

This attribute is not a URI; it is just the filename without its
parent directory path.  To avoid confusion, let's rename it to
"filename", leaving the struct without a "uri" attribute.

No longer allocate it as a "VarSize".  This used to be a clever trick
to save memory 10 years ago, but these days, keeping the code
maintainable seems more important than saving a few kilobytes of
memory.

Allow forward-declaring it.

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

This enforces the "not nullptr" rule.

This eliminates some overhead, because the compiler doesn't need to
consider these functions throwing.

Reduce overhead.  LightSong can always point to the "real" allocated
string.

The Song class is only used for database songs now.  A Song without a
Directory is not possible anymore.

Detach the Song class completely from the public API, only to be used
by SimpleDatabase and the update thread.

Reduces overhead because we need to manage only one memory allocation.
According to valgrind/massif, we save 7%.

From now on, struct Song will be used by the database only, and
DetachedSong will be used by everybody else.  DetachedSong is easier
to use, but Song has lower overhead.