Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

So long, autotools!  This is my last MPD related project to migrate
away from it.  It has its strengths, but also very obvious weaknesses
and weirdnesses.  Today, many of its quirks are not needed anymore,
and are cumbersome and slow.  Now welcome our new Meson overlords!

Closes #193

If libupnp is installed in a non-standard location we must rely on the
include path provided by $(pkg-config --cflags libupnp). Relative to the
path given from that command no prefix must be used to find the respective
files.

libupnp 1.6.24 added a few badly designed macros which break the MPD
build:

 https://sourceforge.net/p/pupnp/code/ci/8177a4195a4d4a5d6cb095eaf4ca5b65ac446381/

To work around this, we disable our emulation functions (from
714011c8) on this libupnp version.

Closes #163

Closes #155

Bugs found by Coverity.

Got lost in commit e5ee3579

We can do CURL requests asynchronously, and we don't need a
synchronous WorkQueue thread for that.

This allows parallelizing lookups and allows immediate cancellation.

memcmp() can overflow the buffer.

This eliminates some overhead, because the compiler doesn't need to
consider these functions throwing.

With "ok==false", newly created threads may quit instantly.

libupnp provides seconds, not whatever time unit is used by
std::chrono::steady_clock.