Tracking the "elapsed" time from the chunks which we have sent to the
output pipe is very imprecise: since we have implemented the music
pipe, we're sending large number of chunks at once, giving the
"elapsed" time stamp a resolution of usually more than a second.

This patch changes the source of this information to the outputs.  If
a chunk has been played by all outputs, the "elapsed" time stamp is
updated.

The new command PLAYER_COMMAND_REFRESH makes the player thread update
its status information: it tells the outputs to update the chunk time
stamp.  After that, player_control.elapsed_time is current.