The output thread could hang indefinitely after finishing CANCEL,
because it could have missed the signal while the output was not
unlocked in ao_command_finished().

This patch removes the wait() call after CANCEL, and adds the flag
"allow_play" instead.  While this flag is set, playback is skipped.
With this flag, there will not be any excess wait() call after the
pipe has been cleared.

This patch fixes a bug that causes mpd to discontinue playback after
seeking, due to the race condition described above.