dinput: Include fcntl.h instead of sys/fcntl.h since they are equivalent and the former is more portable.

The code required that a row started with a visible band. However this
was not met if the first band of the rebar was hidden. The new code
should fix this case. I've also made it explicit in the comments that
the functions require the first band to be visible and renamed
next_band, prev_band to next_visible and prev_visible to make it clear
what these functions do.

It returns an INT, which is quite different to an HRESULT.

winex11: Use XWithdrawWindow to unmap managed windows, and wait until they are withdrawn before mapping them again.

Change WM_STATE to NET_WM_STATE in variable and function names to
avoid confusion with the ICCCM WM_STATE property.