user32: Don't try to free a handle with a value of 1, which is the dde handle value for asynchronous operations.

For non-recorded stateblocks a light always exists in the device stateblock as
well, since that's where it's copied from. However, when SetLightEnable() is
called for a light that didn't a exist yet while recording a stateblock, the
light is only created on the recorded stateblock.

ole2: Convert the icon for OleMetafilePictFromIconAndLabel to 32-bit explicitly instead of casting the handle.

winex11: Don't process ConfigureNotify events that have been superseded by a later configure request.

This is functionally a revert of
8eeb513b. The language of the extension
is slightly confusing to me, but GL_STREAM_*_ARB is more dynamic than
GL_DYNAMIC_*_ARB. So use GL_STREAM usage for D3DUSAGE_DYNAMIC buffers and
GL_DYNAMIC usage for non-dynamic buffers.