Eliminate a dependency from MultipleOutputs on PlayerControl.

Obsoletes the same variable from AudioConfig.cxx.

Don't use the global variables in class DecoderBridge; instead,
forward these values to the decoder thread via PlayerControl and
DecoderControl.

Prepare full C++ exception support in the decoder thread.

Prepare full C++ exception support in the player thread.

Fixes assertion failure in MultipleOutputs::Open() after seeking to a
failing song during playback.

Fix regression by commit 45f6129a

See http://bugs.musicpd.org/view.php?id=4477

Instead of stopping playback completely, only CANCEL the queued song
if necessary, and use the SEEK command to play the selected song.
SEEK will take care for current playback state.

If the decoder was just started, it already seeks to the desired
position.