This addresses two problems:

1. the libFLAC write callback had to send an error status to its
caller when SubmitData() returned a command; this disrupted libFLAC
and the resulting command could not be used for anything;

2. the libFLAC function FLAC__stream_decoder_seek_absolute() also
calls the write callback, but its result cannot be used, because
seeking is still in progress, so we lose all data from one FLAC frame.
By moving the SubmitData() call until after CommandFinished(), we
avoid losing this data.  This fixes another part of #113

See code comment.

Replaces decoder_data() and others.

Prepare for a Decoder API redesign based on an abstract class with
virtual methods.

This is required if a stream ands without another chained FLAC file.

It's always 0.

If the duration is unknown, pass SignedSongTime::Negative(), as
documented for decoder_initialized().

This is obsolete because it has been moved to the MPD core.

libFLAC API documentation suggests that FLAC__stream_decoder_flush()
should be called to recover from FLAC__STREAM_DECODER_SEEK_ERROR.

Stop after all fatal errors.  This fixes assertion failures in
libFLAC.

The old struct config_param remains only for top-level string options.